Can people please stop breaking up with each other?
All of you were so sweet WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED?!
Is it that difficult to put up with horrible shit that they do, all the heartaches and endless tears at night and think back on all the cute and funny moments, all the effort he put in to make you happy even if he was really silly? Is it that tough to spend sometime with yourself or with your girlfriends and give him his own personal space? All your whinings, your PMS, mood swings which one did he not put up with? How much of his pride and ego you have taken away from him but he doesn't care anyway because you're his girl and he's proud of it.
Is it that difficult to assure her that you'll always love her and that the cold replies, the one word texts, the change in priority, the decreased need for her physically and emotionally are just all part and parcel of a relationship maturing or just because you're a guy and you can't fucking help it? Is it that tough to REMEMBER to let her feel like everything's good once in a while and TELL HER how you feel? Put a note or a reminder to remind yourself if you need to, don't find this ridiculous because every single one of you guys out there you know its necessary.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. And we MUST MUST MUST accept that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades inevitably and you must believe that there is something better taking its place. This is why sweet moments are sweet -- they don't happen all the time. You don't want them to become just any other moment.
Although every relationship is different, we all act the same way in general. As girls we're more insecure, we need a lot of attention and we get jumpy at the smallest stuff. We think too much and we feel too much. For guys, they have no idea what the "smallest stuff" are so they just take it that they don't exist, and they do not give a shit about anything but they do what feels right to them.
When things get rough between the both of you, go ahead and quarrel, yell, scream, talk it out, cry, DO NOT HIT EACH OTHER THOUGH, but at the end of the day, do not forget that two of you are very different individuals that's why this is happening but the feelings you have for each other are undeniably the same. Ain't that what all the "I love you" and "I love you too" is all about?
Love is such a beautiful feeling I don't understand why anyone would just stop fighting for it.