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Saturday, May 26, 2012

Not just another 99 facts.

You know they always have like 99 facts about girls/guys over Facebook and all over the net, but this that I've come across is a little different. Well, very much different. I read through it really fast because MY EYES ARE CLOSING so yeah, if I do not include the "additional comments", it does not mean anything at all. ONE  DOES NOT SIMPLY OVER THINK ON LACK OF COMMENTS.

1. Girls don’t always know what they want.
(This is why we always take 24 hours to dress up.)

2. Say something sweet, she likes it. This is one of the best things that you guys should always remember doing, as often as you could especially when she’s not in the mood. A little appreciation about how good she is looking in your date and when she smells great is something that would put a smile on her face even just for a while and would soon ease the tensions within her.

3. Girls always think that they could look better, so guys should inform them of their beauty.

4. Never compare her to other women, even your own mom.

5. Girls try to hint at what they want from guys, they don’t like to say it.
(Because saying makes you sound like a materialistic bitch.)

6. A guys girlfriend wants to be the only hand that he wants to hold.

7. If girls flirt with their guy friends in front of their boyfriends, it usually doesn’t mean anything except that they’ve been friends with that guy longer then you have been their boyfriend. Don’t get offended.
(They're like brothers you know?)

8. If a girl wants to meet a guys family, let them. It means they care.

9. When a girl will ditch her friends to hang out with a guy, its a big deal.
(It's. A. Big. Deal. Guys don't know what kind of bullshit we give our girlfriends when they ditch us for them.)

10. Girls don’t like to like guys that aren’t over their ex-girlfriends.

11. Girls don’t like to talk about ex’s.
(It's over, why think?)

12. If you call a girl “Hot” it doesn’t mean anything. 
(But if you're calling ANOTHER girl, it means something.)

13. When a girl doesn’t feel good, she doesn’t talk much.
(Because what comes out won't be good.)

14. If a girl is mad at her boyfriend, she doesn’t want to say anything about it, she just wishes he’d know.
(Yes, we expect you all to MIND READ. Don't know how, but MIND READ. Beepbeep.)

15. When girls don’t want to talk about their ex-boyfriend, shes probably not completely over him. 
(You ask, we say, we over. You ask, we no want say, we not over yet.)

16. If a girl will sit by her boyfriend’s friends, she really cares about him.

17. When a guy still loves a girl at her worst look, it lets her think that he is sincere about her.

18. Girls love surprises and gifts especially during important occasions. A girl may expect something from her 
boyfriend but that doesn’t mean she’s a gold digger.

19. Girls love to cuddle!

20. If a girl will be a guys girlfriend, she really likes him.

21. All girls flirt, some don’t mean it.
(Yeah, we're just being polite.)

22. Girls like it when guys ask advice from them. This action just shows that you trust her, and that she’s someone you can count on.

23. Girls already know the truth even before they ask you. So be careful guys.
(100% TRUE.)

24. If a girl likes a certain item of clothing that her boyfriend wears, he should wear it more.
(WHI...AHEM WHITE...AHEM.)

25. When girls write guys notes, that guy should keep them.

26. If a guy remembers something important to a girl that she said and he brings it up later, it makes that girls 
feel special.

27. Girls want a guy to prove that they're not all the same.

28. If a girl admits that she misses a guy, she really does.

29. Girls hesitate to fall in love because they always assume they’ll get hurt. Prove to your girl you won’t hurt her.

30. Girls feel flattered if a guy would greet him first in their special occasions (e.g. monthsaries, anniversaries, etc.) because a guy tend to be forgetful.

31. Girls love it when guys say sweet things in front of their friends, but understand if they don’t.

32. If a girl tells a guy she was talking about him with her friends, its always about something good.
(Oh guys, you can totally count on this. Unless she's talking to her friends while CRYING/SOBBING HER HEART OUT.)

33. She doesn’t expect you to read her mind; she wants you to ask her.

34. Sometimes, girls test guys to see how they’ll react.

35. If a guy knows a girl isn’t over her ex-boyfriend, don’t call her out on it, show her how much better you are.

36. Girls love to be stared at sometimes. Looking straight in her eyes tells something, this melts her heart especially when she is attracted to you.

37. Girls like guys who can protect her.

38. If a girl really wants to be with a guy, she’ll make sure it happens.

39. Girls don’t like too flirty guys. Flirting with a lot of girls simply means you’re not a one-woman-man; remember that actions speak louder all the time.

40. If a girl is still in love with someone else, they will never say anything bad about them.
(You're perfect to me.)

41. When a girl slow dances with her boyfriend in the kitchen, with no music on, thats when he knows she’s in love with him.

42. Girls sometimes think if you love them more than you love your exes. And sometimes conclude that you are still not over with your last ex-girlfriend.

43. Changing for the better will let her stick with you. It simply means that you want to grow with her inside the relationship you are building.

44. Girls are more observant than guys think.

45. When girls say NO, it only means keep trying. Girls are inconsistent, especially when deciding for their guy’s interests.

46. When you meet your girlfriend’s mom and she says she’s heard a lot about you, trust her.

47. Girls love to be spoiled. They sometimes have this childish part of them that really comes out especially when they want something really badly.
(Like, whining.)

48. If a girl lays her head on her guys chest and just listens to his heartbeat, she’s listening to see if it will tell her what he’s thinking.
(No, I just wanna listen, that's all. :3)

49. Be protective, but not too much. She likes it when you care for her, but not to the point of choking her at times.
(You do not choke me.)

50. Girls think too much.

51. When girls say nothing is wrong, shes lying. Everything is wrong.

52. If a girl’s heart has been shattered, she’ll be hesitant to talk about her problems to a guy at first. 

53. Sharing your future family plans is important to her. This is your chance to show her how serious you are, especially when you are ready to have a family with her.

54. If a girl dumps a guy because she thinks she can’t make him happiest, that’s love.

55. Girls feel insecure with their boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend.

56. Girls like to be called beautiful all the time. Complimenting how she looks is a big deal for her, telling her how beautiful she is more than enough.

57. Girls love it when guys say they love something about them, like their smile.

58. Girls are good detectives. Some just does not open it up with their boyfriend.

59. Knowing her likes and dislikes is cool for her. This means that you are that interested to get to know her better and to make ways to make her happy.

60. Girls love romantic guys. Kiss her under the rain and in front of your family and friends, it’s not that hard.

61. If a girl wants you to be with her, you’ll know it.

62. If you break a girls heart, she’ll never be the same.

63. When a girl holds a guys hand, she never wants to let it go.

64. Never underestimate the feelings a girl has for her boyfriend.
(Guys, note note.)

65. If a girl really loves you, she won’t be able to see anything bad about you.

66. Girls are sometimes drama queens, but you are not allowed to call her that. It would make the whole situation worst, just go with the flow and be the man she needs for the moment.

67. If a girl thinks you’ll judge her for something, she’ll never open up to you fully.

68. When a girl tells you about things she loves, like staring at stars or listening to the rain, shes falling for you.

69. Girls adore guys who don’t only think about sex.

70. It hurts girls to dump guys.

71. If a girl really cares about a guy, you can see it in her eyes.

72. Girls can flirt with every guy around, but at the end of the day, she’ll be watching the sun set with the one she truly loves.

73. If a girl tells you a secret, don’t ever let it go.

74. When girls hear about their boyfriend bragging about the little things, like watching tv together, it makes them appreciate him more.

75. Girls hate it when guys ignore them.
(Especially without a reason. We rather have a "I do not wish to talk to you, go away." from you, then for you to just ignore us like this.")

76. Girls never touch guys by accident.
(Exclude clumsy girls.)

77. Hugging her without a reason is a very sweet thing for her, especially when you do it surprisingly.

78. When a girl asks a guy what their thinking, they really do care.
(And we expect the truth, and nothing less.)

79. First rule when you enter her life, never cheat! You would want to think twice before getting involved with two girls at the same time. It’s just whether one girl would stick with you, or both girls would slap and make the hell out of you, so be sure that you are really a good guy when you are looking for a good girl.

80. Girls love special things especially when it’s given as a surprise. Do something special for her sometimes. Doing something like giving her flowers and stuff toys just for no reason would make her day very important and worth remembering. Making girls feel exceptional would make them feel good about themselves as and will take away some of their insecurities as well.

81. Girls look at the other girls that their boyfriend is with as their enemy.
(Natural enemy, yes. We'll hunt them down.)

82. Girls hate it when their guy friends make fun of their boyfriend.
(ABSOLUTELY DETESTABLE.)

83. Try to be interested with her interests. Girls would really appreciate a guy who makes an effort to blend-in with her hobbies.

84. Make time for her. The time that you give her is very important for her, and as much as possible any disturbances should not be an option for you or else she will feel taken for granted.

85. If a girl hates someone, her boyfriend should probably not talk to them.

86. A good way to make a girl mad is not trust her when she’s being honest.
(Absolutely.)

87. Walk her home after a date, she wants to feel safe. Even if girls do not say it, they want to be walked safely to their homes. Doing this as a gentleman would be a very big thing, especially for girls who just observing you if you can really take care of them.

88. Girls love it when the guy doesn’t take long to reply and keep the conversation going.

89. Girls want to feel that your proud of having them. They may not tell you but sometimes they want you to show them off to your family and friends.

90. Treat your girl right, or someone else will.

91. If a girl laughs at a guys every joke, she likes him.

92. Don’t make her say something repeatedly. This manner would really pick something on girls, and if you keep on asking her about something for the 3rd and 4th time, it just shows and means that you are not interested and not listening carefully to what she is talking about.

93. Girls know when a guy is lying.

94. Girls are way too forgiving. Don’t take advantage of it.

95. If a girl says your important to her, its true.

96. When girls hold their boyfriends tight, they never want to let that moment go.

97. Girls remember little things the most.

98. When a girl is being serious, listen to her.

99. When guys tell something meaningful, girls treasure it. Your evocative words that catch girl’s attention would really last a lifetime in their hearts.

I HAVE NO IDEA WHY THIS PICTURE IS SO KEWT.

But honestly, guys, if a girl really loves you, she won't mind if you don't do anything special or flashy. No need for expensive candlelight dinner, branded handbags yada yada. She won't mind even if you don't know shit about girls and their nonsense. Because when a girl loves a man, all she wants is his company. Just you sitting there silently with her, it's enough already. Taking long bus rides to no where, walking down the beach with her, cooking at home and eating failed experimental food, taking stupid pictures together, showing up in front of you in an oversize t-shirt and shorts with a really messy hairdo and still being described as beautiful, putting up with her long shopping hours and the notorious PMS we have. We appreciate every little thing that you do for us. We because we know in those moments, we're the only girl in the world that your heart and mind are with. 


And that's all we ask for.